Sense Or Nonsense?

 

 If you are still putting your life together and you don't have a child yet, then trust me as I say that's a good thing.

Don't let anybody lie to you that time is going and you need to get married and start having kids that can grow with you. You actually don't need a child now if you have nothing. Because when you need help, those people pushing you from the start, won't be there to help you.

There's nothing good that will come from that situation. Get yourself in order first. Get yourself sorted. Funny how everybody says children are a blessing but nobody will tell you how those blessings need food, clothes, security and attention.

You are broke and now there's a human being you have to provide for, You who can't even provide for yourself. Now you have someone to provide for. Imagine the stress, the struggle, the Pain?.

This is why 90% of young couples breakup after a child is involved. Whoever said children are a blessing was not talking about poor people. When you have nothing, Children will suffer extremely, a huge extra weight on your shoulders it would be.

I've had people like this come to me on the Inbox begging for alms such as "Money for baby food, baby clothing, Baby is sick and needs money for treatment, House rent issue because they've got a baby responsibility which they can't keep up with the rent, no job, business down because a baby has come on, etc etc", I've also first hand had people around me come for financial helps too, just to feed their babies, and in my heart, i ask WHY? WHY bring in a baby when you know you aren't doing well with money yet?.

Should a child come into this world to continue from where you are suffering?

Think on this before ever bringing in those beauties, because it's unfair to bring a child into this world to suffer. Take your time, plan yourself, look for little businesses to invest in as a second means of income. Times are getting harder now and so should we get smarter.

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